The Power of Self-Trust: Your Secret to Confident Leadership

The Power of Self-Trust: Your Secret to Confident Leadership

You are the leader you’ve been waiting for. No more seeking validation overthinking every decision, or shrinking your brilliance to make others comfortable. Confidence starts with self-trust.

Think about it—when you fully trust yourself, you move differently. You make decisions without second-guessing, speak up in rooms where you belong, and carry yourself with an energy that commands respect.

So why do so many women leaders struggle with self-trust? Because we’ve been conditioned to seek permission instead of power. Not anymore.

Self-trust fuels confident leadership.

Why Self-Trust Is a Game-Changer for Leaders

When you trust yourself, everything shifts:

✅ Decisions become easier – No more overanalyzing. You trust your instincts and take action.
✅ Your presence is felt – Confidence isn’t about being the loudest; it’s about being sure.
✅ You move with clarity – You stop doubting every step and start trusting that even missteps are part of the journey.

Leaders who trust themselves don’t waste energy on self-doubt. They make moves, period.

A Personal Story: Confidence on the Trading Floor

Let me take you back to my days as a trader. I was the only Black female trader in a predominantly male industry, and trust me, that could have been a reason for me to hold back, to shrink into the background. But I quickly learned that hiding behind that excuse would serve no one—not me, not my team, and certainly not my career.

My job was to hit my numbers and optimize the production I was in charge of, and I had to do it with confidence. There were days when the market moved against me, and I lost money on trades. Those moments were tough—losing in trading is part of the game. No one wins on every single trade.

If I had let those losses shake my confidence, I would have been paralyzed with doubt. Instead, I chose to view those setbacks as opportunities for growth. I trusted my skills and instincts, reminding myself that my worth wasn’t tied to every single outcome.

I had to keep my head high, knowing that confidence is built not just on victories but on how we respond to challenges. I learned to embrace the ups and downs, using them to fuel my determination to push forward. My confidence had to remain strong, and as I did that, I created a space where I could lead with authority and authenticity.

3 Ways to Strengthen Your Self-Trust (and Lead with More Confidence!)

1. Keep Promises to Yourself

Every time you set a goal and don’t follow through, your brain files it under “Sis doesn’t do what she says.” 😬 The more this happens, the less you trust yourself.

Try this: Start with one small promise this week—whether it’s finishing a project, speaking up in a meeting, or waking up 30 minutes earlier. Then do it. Trust is built through action.

2. Filter Out the Noise

Too much outside input will have you doubting your own brilliance. Your intuition already knows the answer—you just have to listen.

Try this: Before asking anyone else for advice, pause. What do YOU think? Write it down. You might realize you don’t need anyone else’s input after all.

3. Keep Receipts on Your Wins

You’ve navigated tough situations before. You’ve made bold decisions. You’ve come through every single time. So why keep acting like you can’t trust yourself now?

Try this: Start a Confidence Journal. Write down three times when you trusted yourself and it worked out. When doubt creeps in, go back and read your own receipts.

It's Time to Lead Like You Mean it

The most powerful leaders aren’t the ones with all the answers—they’re the ones who trust themselves to figure it out. ~ Maven Miara

And that’s you.

💬 What’s ONE way you’re choosing to trust yourself this month? Drop a comment—I want to hear it!

Finishing The Year with Focus and Flair

Finishing The Year with Focus and Flair

Maven, can we have a quick heart-to-heart? The finish line for 2024 is within reach. But this moment isn’t just about crossing it—it’s about how you do it. With clarity. With confidence. And, of course, with that signature Maven flair that sets you apart.

Let’s be real for a second: this time of year can feel like a pressure cooker. Deadlines loom, holiday plans pile up, and somewhere in the chaos, you catch yourself wondering: “Did I do enough this year?” But here’s the truth—you’ve done more than enough, and now is the time to close this chapter with purpose.

This is your opportunity to finish intentionally and start 2025 from a place of strength and alignment. So, let’s talk about how to wrap up the year in a way that reflects your vision, values, and confidence. Ready? Let’s go!

Step 1: Reflect and Reset

Before you do anything else, pause.

Take a moment to look back at 2024. What did you accomplish? What challenges stretched you in ways you didn’t expect? Write it all down—not just the shiny wins but the subtle, meaningful moments of growth. Maybe you found the courage to set boundaries, made progress on a project you’ve been nurturing, or simply survived a tough season. Every single step counts.

But reflection doesn’t end with the good stuff. It’s also about asking yourself: “What am I ready to release?” That lingering guilt over things left undone? Let it go. The habit that no longer serves you? Time to drop it. This is your moment to reset—to step into clarity and create space for what matters most.

Think of this as your leadership tune-up: keeping what aligns and leaving the rest behind.

Step 2: Prioritize Like a Maven

Here’s the thing: you don’t have to do it all. (Yes, Maven, read that again.)

As you wrap up the year, ask yourself: “What’s truly important to me right now?” Maybe it’s doubling down on a key goal, taking the time to reconnect with loved ones, or simply giving yourself permission to rest. Whatever it is, let that priority guide your next steps.

And here’s your reminder: saying “no” isn’t just allowed—it’s necessary. Saying “no” to something that doesn’t align with your goals or energy is a powerful act of leadership. It’s a way of honoring your values, your time, and the vision you’re creating for 2025.

Step 3: Bring the Flair

Now, let’s talk about that Maven magic.

What makes you feel unstoppable? Whether it’s putting on a playlist that gets you hyped, slipping into an outfit that screams “I’ve got this,” or planning a celebration that’s all about you—bring your unique flair to these final weeks.

Flair is more than just style; it’s about owning your confidence. It’s about leaning into the rituals, routines, and moments that remind you who you are and why you’re here. So don’t hold back. This is your time to finish 2024 with boldness and pride.

Why It Matters

How you finish one chapter sets the tone for the next. When you reflect, prioritize, and bring your unique touch to the table, you’re not just wrapping up 2024—you’re preparing to lead yourself into 2025 with purpose.

This isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing what aligns. It’s about stepping into the next season with clarity, confidence, and the assurance that you’re exactly where you need to be.

Your Maven Takeaway

Maven, let’s finish this year the way you deserve: strong, focused, and unapologetically you. Reflect on how far you’ve come, prioritize what moves you forward, and add that touch of you that no one else can replicate.

This is your moment to lead well, live well, and step into 2025, ready for all the greatness ahead.

Want More Inspiration?
🎧 Check out my guest appearance on the No Labels No Limits Podcast, where we dive into resilience, leadership, and using challenges as stepping stones.

📺 Prefer watching? Catch the full episode on YouTube for actionable strategies to carry into the new year.

Let’s make this year-end count, Maven. Lead well. Live well. And don’t forget to shine—because 2025 is ready for you.

Own Your Holidays: Thrive, Don’t Just Survive

Own Your Holidays: Thrive, Don’t Just Survive

Alright, Maven Nation, we’re stepping into that time of year again. You know, the one where we’ve got decorations popping up, calendars filling faster than ever, and everyone asking, “How am I going to make it through this season?!”

[Pause] What if we could change the vibe this year? Instead of just surviving the holidays, let’s set the stage to thrive. Yes, it’s possible, and yes, we’re doing this together!

Work-Life Integration During the Holidays: Let’s Get Real

The holidays don’t have to throw your work-life integration out the window. In fact, this season can be an opportunity to create rhythms that help you find more joy—not more stress. Imagine starting January energized, focused, and ready to crush those goals—no “recovery period” required!

Let’s walk through a few ways you can set the tone for a holiday season that serves you.

1. Set Intentions, Not Just Plans

It’s easy to let the holidays become a blur of obligations, but setting clear intentions can keep you grounded. Ask yourself, “How do I want to feel this season?” Maybe you’re craving peace, joy, or even just more downtime. I know you are like me and we have been BAMing all year! Once you’re clear on that, shape your schedule and boundaries to make it happen.

For some of you, that might mean tighter work hours to maximize family time. For others, it’s carving out some moments just for you—and you know I mean guilt-free.

2. Give Yourself Permission to Say “No”

Uhm, Maven, you don’t have to say “yes” to every single invitation or opportunity that comes your way. You’ve got the Maven’s permission slip to say, “No, thank you” to anything that doesn’t align with your energy. Protect your peace and stand by your priorities. Yeah, someone might be disappointed, but they will be alright.

For more on setting boundaries, check out Episode #29 of Leadership Wellness Circle, where I share some quick takes on enjoying luxurious and affordable self-care. It’s real talk about showing up for you during a time when everyone wants a piece of your time.

3. Make Self-Care Non-Negotiable

Self-care isn’t selfish, especially during the holidays. Think of it as the fuel you need to keep the season joyful. Maybe it’s a morning coffee routine before the house wakes up, a short walk, or even a weekly “unplug” hour. Whatever it looks like for you, make it non-negotiable.

When you prioritize your well-being, you’re a better leader, friend, partner, and parent/auntie. Everyone benefits when you’re taking care of you.

4. Reflect on and Celebrate Your Wins

We often rush to set new goals, but don’t skip the powerful step of celebrating how far you’ve come. The end of the year is a prime time for reflection. Think about the challenges you’ve overcome, the goals you’ve achieved, and the growth you’ve experienced. Honor yourself before moving into a new season.

Ready to Thrive?

Alright, Maven, you have what you need! Remember: you are the architect of your experience. Create one that aligns with your values, protects your peace, and celebrates your journey.

Let’s wrap up 2024 intentionally and stride into 2025, refreshed with the capacity to receive more.

And hey, for more tips on cultivating balance, building resilience, and finding joy in leadership, check out a previous blog post, “They Are Not Your People,” for insights on creating boundaries and nurturing meaningful connections.

Lead Well. Live Well. and genuinely enjoy your holiday season!